A few days ago, we here next thunder storm, in broad daylight lightning thunder.The thunder sky, a thrashing of the three pigs coming, running a little afraid, ask me: “mom, you hear thunder?”I heard him comfort, said that a thunder shower.
After a while, he came to ask: “mom, you said that we would lay the house to blasted?”Tell him not, he was still a little.
On Saturday, and the children to find books from the library, I have a book about children afraid of thunder book and read three pigs.
The thunder shower is a story to, the little girl brother and help my mother accept clothes, hours of sleep at night, the little girl is afraid of thunder, comfort her father told the thunder and rain benefits, but she still afraid, oneself try a lot of measures: reading, listening to the radio, with a pillow can’t cover ears, and ran into the room, brother, brother, said he does not fear, so she jumped brother bed.Results a big thunder, frighten them together, screaming.
Then they ran with my mom and dad’s room, say to sleep together with my parents, my parents said, you can sleep in our house of ground.Both parents house slept overnight in the palm, girl, holding brother boat ran to play outside.
This book is very common in the story of a plot, but let me think, that mom and dad’s children sleep in their bedroom ground.
I think we Chinese parents to meet this kind of situation, at least I myself, it is to let the children sleep to bed, bed is not big enough, so if the child must be sleeping on the floor, he father, or parents to sleep on the floor, rather than the children!
But the parents, like to read the children sleep is a very natural thing.
The reasons of difference in where?
I think Chinese parents and children are “noble”, parents of children in life are very carefully, care for children gutty “sacrifice” spirit, good things to give children seems to be perfectly justified.
What is actually help them to do well, look, but parents love is experienced ego growth of children.
Then extended to think, it is the “sacrifice” parents should return: weWith their own “sacrifice” for children “obedient, hope children can reach our expectations, once the child against parents or not, the parents will be required to their adult children” sacrifice “to grumble, many parents let children feel giving quite a lot of parents, children are owed.
American parents and children with equal attitude to life, not spoiled, spiritual, no pressure, let the child learns is responsible for his decision.
They are paying more attention to cultivate children’s independent ability.While the parents, nor for the children lost their lives.